20
Sep
Being A Stepmom With No Kids Of Your Own. Understand that it may be difficult for your stepchild to accept you or show affection for so many reasons none of which will have anything to do with how they feel about you. I myself am a childless stepmom. Grin and bear shared holidays and birthdays-all the kids. Being a childless stepmother is a difficult role.
Yet the act of trying to connect with a child who isnt their own means the stepmother is likely to be rejected time and time again for acceptance represents to the child not only a betrayal of. If you dont know any other women with no children please find some new girlfriends they are all around you. Whether you want children of your own someday or are perfectly content with this stepmom gig as your way to parenthood I see you. I am a stepmom with no kids myself too and that is just fine with me. Being a childless stepmom is a very painful thing if it was not part of our plan – and lets be honest here being a stepmom was in NOBODYS life planmuch less being a childless stepmom. Understand that it may be difficult for your stepchild to accept you or show affection for so many reasons none of which will have anything to do with how they feel about you.
As you let go you will feel more empowered and liberated.
As a stepmom with my own biological children I have no doubt that I had an advantage over a non-parent when I became a stepmother. As you let go you will feel more empowered and liberated. I did not get married til I was about 40 and never wanted to have one that late or by myself plus I enjoy my adult life. - Having to take on a parenting role with step-children without being able to have a child of your own. If you and the new spouse have children dont forget that no matter how you feel about your step kids your children will love them because they are siblings and will not want them treated poorly or differently. Understand that it may be difficult for your stepchild to accept you or show affection for so many reasons none of which will have anything to do with how they feel about you.